Monday, April 16, 2007

"All by myself..."

My most recent struggle has had to do with loneliness. For a while now I go through periods of time where I feel lonely. So what did I do? I sought after the wisdom of those above me and I asked them how I could remedy this. And they provided me with insight. They both said the same thing without (as far as I know) consulting each other, which means it can't be wrong. They told me that loneliness is a result of thinking too much about myself. And it got me thinking about being self conscious. To be self-conscious is to feel an undue awareness of oneself, or one's appearance. My loneliness is a result of constantly thinking about the friends that I don't have. So the solution they offered to me was to intentionally encourage other people. If I"m focusing on others then I don't have time to think about myself.

That would be so nice

1 comment:

Timothy Hill said...

That's true. If you are putting others first constantly, you won't have time to think about yourself being lonely. "Those above you" are wise people.